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3 TIPS ON BETTER COMMUNICATIONS FOR YOUR LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP
1. Start by doing a weekly online romantic date
Not being together does not mean that romance is gone...be creative. This time should be spent for enjoyment no business just keeping the romance alive.
Examples:
- Wholesome version: Sending pictures of your partner's favorite food or dessert better yet make it a romantic dinner via skype complete with table arrangement and candles at home.
- Not so wholesome version: Either voice call or video call - be your beautiful or handsome sexy self and...
2. Set a monthly date to talk about finances and money matters
Having a set time puts both of you in the correct mindset and provide a venue to talk about your financial status, updates and needs. The goal is to prevent the situation where eventually your partner will avoid calls because it boils down to asking for money.
Example: Every 3rd Thursday of the month
Discuss: Current expenses and adjustments, Future expenses, savings to date, debt to date, future investments
3. Make a checklist of random topics to discuss with your partner
Some couples had time to work on their marriage or relationship together before being apart, but some are not so lucky. So why not make individual lists from important issues to random scenarios or situations you saw on a movie or a TV show. Share your lists with each other and set time to discuss each item.
Examples:
My List: Should I work or not, what school should we send the children, why do you give to charity
Partner List: How to handle your parents, I want to retire soon
These are just a few tips and ideas - try them out and let me know if it works. If you liked the article let me know please comment or share your results. Want to read the full article or receive more relationship advice email me at [email protected]
