Adopting my own child! How to process adoption papers in Philippines

anonymous
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Paano po yung proseso ng pag aadopt sa sariling anak? I had a daughter who was staying with my family in the Philippines, and she's now a college student na po..I had her at my young age so my parents decided to change her name to be her parents so she became my small sister instead. Now that I am happily married we want her to be our daughter legally. Does somebody here have the same case like me? Please help!! Thank u all in advance!!


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She knew po pla that I am her real mom!

 

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Maureen Diaz
is in the Philippines
Hi! I also had the same experience,my son was named after my parents,i asked staffs from NSO and they told me that I need to seek for a legal advice from a lawyer.
Adelaimar C Arias-Jose
is a Legal expert in the Philippines
Yes, you can adopt your own child. You can even adopt your own sister. Kaso, if you say in court in the Philippines that she is your sister and you want to adopt her, hindi na puede kasi, hindi na siya minor. Adopting a sibling can only be done when the sibling is still a minor.

If you tell the court that she is really your own child but she was registered as your parents' child -- your parents may open themselves to prosecution for falsification of a public document and simulation of birth. Pero, I think that the court will be sympathetic. Kasi nga naman, iskandalo ang magka-anak sa pagka-dalaga lalo na kung batang-bata pa ang babae nang siya'y maging ina. Tapos, hindi din naman kaya ng tunay na ina na palakihin ang bata, kaya't mgulang din niya ang magpapalaki sa bata. So, instead na magkaroon pa ng pagkutya sa bata, the parents (grandparents) actually tried to shield the child from social stigma. So, kaya ko lang ito nasasabi, ay dahil sa your parents will have to be your co-petitioners. Sa ayaw o sa gusto nila, kasali sila sa usaping ito. Pero kung mga senior na sila -- naku, wala nang kulong ito, kahit na ma-demanda pa sila (matagal ang hustisya sa Pinas).

Kung ayaw naman ng mga magulang mo, puede pa rin na sila ay mga unwilling co-petitioner. Isasali mo sila kahit na ayaw nila. Para mapatunayan mong lahat ng ito, kailangan ng DNA test siguro (lalo na kung ayaw ng mga magulang mo na sumali sa usaping ito). You will have to prove that your daughter is truly your daughter and not your sister.

You will also need a lawyer whose specialization is in family law.
Rolly Polly
is in Japan
Thank You Ms.Maureen & Atty.Bimbi,this is all i want to hear po,an answers from a Professional like you..and Yes my parents were too old na po & that is my biggest reason why i wanted my daughter to be adopt.,were trying to talked about what we have planned to both of them eversince but they seems not so interested coz they believed that we (including them) can't do it coz it's not that so easy...plus it takes a long process & of course a lot of penny to be needed,.one more questions po ano po kaya ang mga needed na papers?or what kind(s) and how long does it takes po kaya?my daughter now is 19..pwde po bang i rename ko muna sya under my single name?o direct na kagad to my married name along w/the name of my husband?alin po kya ung mas madali? again thank u so so much po! Godbless always.
Adelaimar C Arias-Jose
is a Legal expert in the Philippines
Naku, Rolly, you cannot just re-register your 19-year old para her name will be changed to your name. Kung nai-register na siya ng parents mo under their name, you cannot just change that by re-registering her. That is a simulation of birth -- it is criminal act.

Mas mabuti talagang magsampa ka na lamang nga petition para i-acknowledge na ang iyong 19-year old daughter ay iyo ngang natural/biological daughter. Tapos, hilingin mo na rin sa court na iutos na palitan ang kanyang birth certificate to reflect na siya nga ay daughter mo. Kapag nai-ayos mo na ito, puede mo na siyang kuhanin kasi, sa kanyang birth certificate, siya ay lumalabas na biological/natural child mo.

Pagkatapos nito, saka siya puede ring i-adopt ng iyong legal spouse.

These answers might not all be applicable to your case. Kasi, in the first place, the facts you gave me are bare sketches. Hindi ko nakita ang mga documents mo. I am basing my answers only on the facts you gave me.

Good luck to you.
anonymous
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No po Mam Bimbi what I'am trying to say po is rename her o iparegister po ulet yung name nya w/legal actions and papers po..syempre all legal is much better than illlegal..what's the use po na kukunin ko sya if i commit such a crime?panget po di ba?Again thank you so much! hahanap na po ako ng pwedeng humawak ng kaso ko about this matters salamat po ulet!! and Happy New Year!

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Adelaimar C Arias-Jose

I am a graduate of the UP College of Law. Member of the Integrated Bar of the Philippines since 1995. I am currently involved in private practice in criminal, civil and labor law.
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