Who is the father of my child? Club worker in Korea-Paternity test

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I have a friend na Club worker po sa Korea. Umuwi po syang buntis at hindi alam ang ama ng anak nya. May nakatalik po sya ng Dec 2013, di nya alam kung regla po yong Dec 25-27.. May spotting ng Dec 28. May nkatalik din sya ng Jan 14 2014 at ibang guy din ng Jan 17-19, 2014. She gave birth sep 12, 2014 at full term ang baby. Query: Ilang percent po ba ang possibility na ang ama ay yong guy ng Jan 17-19? or jan 14 at December 2013. Full term po ang bata.Gusto nya po ipa angkin sa guy na jan 17-19 kasi po maganda ang magiging life nya at hindi na sya babalik sa club. Ang prob po kasi what if malaman na hindi pala sa kanya? Please advise po. Thanks!



Topic: I have a friend who works in a club in Korea. She went back to the Philippines pregnant, and the father of her child does not know this. She had sexual intercourse with someone in December 2013. She does not know if what she had on December 25 to 27 was menstruation. She had spoting on December 28. She also had sexual intercouse with another guy on January 14, 2014, and still another guy on January 17-19. She gave birth on September 12, 2014. The baby is full term. She wants to tell the "January 17-19" guy that he is the father of the child, because she knows that she would have a better life with him and she doesn't have to go back to the club. The problem is, what if the guy finds out that the child is not his?



 

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Gamitin ang pregnancy calculator dito para ma-calculate kung kailan siya malamang nabuntis: http://buhayofw.com/postque/other-diseases-of-ofws

Kailan ang first day of her last period? Let’s say it was December 25, as you have mentioned. The next question is what is the usual number of days in your period/menstrual cycle? Most women have a period every 28 days. Work out the date when your friend’s last period started, and count on two weeks. That's when she'll be fertile, because it's around that time that ovaries release an egg.

Mas malabo siguro na ang “January 14” o “January 17-19” guys ang ama ng bata. Mas malaki chance na ang ama ng bata ay ang December guy, if full term ang baby.

Para makakuha ng sigurado o definite answer about who the baby's father is, your friend will have to take a paternity test. Siguradong importante rin to her boyfriend or ex-boyfriend to know if he really is the baby’s father.

A paternity test is simple and quick. The mother, the baby and the assumed dad will each have to give samples of cells taken from inside the cheeks. Usually, a quick rub inside both cheeks with a long cotton bud is all it takes.

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